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Modifications and enforcement · Custody, support and alimony orders

Changing an order, or making the other parent follow it.

A decree is written for the family that existed the day it was signed, and the order does not change when the family does. Wyoming lets either parent ask to modify custody, support or alimony on a material change in circumstances, and gives the court tools, from wage withholding to jail, against a parent who ignores what the order says.

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Stop paying, or stop the exchanges, because the other parent broke the order first.
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The change, the petition, the court's tools.

A material change.

Custody: "a material change in circumstances since the entry of the order," plus the children's best interests (W.S. § 20-2-204(c)). Support: a twenty-percent gap from today's guideline, once the order is six months old, is by statute enough (W.S. § 20-2-311(a)).

Either parent, by petition.

To the court that entered the order. The Child Support Program may petition on support for either parent, and every three years either parent can ask for a guideline review without showing any change. Another state's order must be registered here first.

Contempt, and the rest.

Modify the order. Hold a parent who "willfully violated" it in contempt, award fees, and grant "any other relief" needed (W.S. § 20-2-204(b)). Judgment for every missed payment, withholding, license suspension, jail for a parent who can pay and will not.

The standard for each kind of order.

  1. Custody: the material change. First, the parent asking must show "a material change of circumstances which outweigh society's interest in applying the doctrine of res judicata." Relocation counts; so, by statute, does "repeated, unreasonable failure by the custodial parent to allow visitation." Only then the eleven factors.
  2. Support: the twenty-percent rule. Once an order is six months old, a twenty-percent guideline move means the court "shall consider there to be a change of circumstances sufficient to justify the modification." An order "is not subject to retroactive modification"; changes run only from the date of service.
  3. Alimony: the decree, revisited. On either party's petition the court may change the amount and how it is paid (W.S. § 20-2-116). The Supreme Court requires a material and substantial change and does not count the payor's own choices. Nobody may stop the checks on their own.
  4. Enforcement: contempt last. Civil contempt, restated by the Supreme Court in June 2025: an effective order requiring certain conduct, knowledge of it, and willful disobedience, proved by clear and convincing evidence. A parent who cannot pay is not in contempt; one who chose not to is.
Enforcement, in orderStep by step
  • 01A letter with the order attached, the dates, and the amount or the missed exchanges
  • 02Income withholding entered or expanded to collect current support plus arrears
  • 03The Child Support Program's administrative tools: tax-refund offset, license suspension, credit reporting, liens, passport denial
  • 04A motion for an order to show cause, with a judgment for the arrears or a record of the withheld parenting time
  • 05The contempt hearing: findings, attorney's fees, make-up time, a purge amount or payment plan
  • 06Jail until the purge is paid, and, for support owed across state lines, referral for federal prosecution

The usual sequence, not a statutory one. The Child Support Program's own manual says contempt "is not the first enforcement action"; a parent with a steady paycheck rarely gets past step two.

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Orders written for a toddler rarely fit a twelve-year-old
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Collection tools, and out-of-state orders.

What counts as a change, the no-hearing tools, interstate orders

What has, and has not, counted as a material change

The change has to be one not contemplated when the order was entered, it has to affect the children's welfare, and it has to be significant in relation to what is being asked; in September 2025 the Supreme Court affirmed a judge who refused to reopen custody over an estrangement that already existed at the divorce. Relocation by the custodial parent, and the distance it creates, has counted since 2012. A deployment does not count on its own. On support, both parents file new financial affidavits, and a parent laid off in January who files in June has paid five months at the old figure and will not see them again; a substantial change can be raised at any time, and every third year either parent may demand a guideline review with no showing at all. The support page explains the guideline the review applies. On alimony, the court has refused to count a payor's own choices, such as new debt or a voluntary drop in income. Alimony fixed by a settlement agreement can still be revised, but the court weighs the fact that the payor accepted it; the alimony page covers how the amount, the term and the ending events are set in the first place.

Contempt, in practice

The statutes give the district court the same power over custody, support and medical-support orders: it may require the parent to appear and "show just cause why the parent should not be held in contempt," and on a finding of willful violation it may award attorney's fees, costs and any other relief the circumstances require (W.S. § 20-2-310(b)). For withheld parenting time the relief is ordinarily make-up time, a more specific schedule, fees, and a warning on the record. For unpaid support it is a judgment, a purge amount that opens the jail door, and a payment plan with a return date. The difference between a parent who cannot pay and one who chose not to is proved with bank records and a work history.

The tools that need no hearing

Most support enforcement never reaches a courtroom. Each missed payment is "a judgment by operation of law" on the day it is due. The withholding order entered with every support order can be expanded, without a hearing, to take current support plus an amount toward arrears out of each paycheck up to the federal limit, and the Child Support Program, part of the Department of Family Services and open to either parent regardless of income, runs the rest. It reports arrears above $1,000 to the credit bureaus, perfects a lien against the obligor's property once arrears reach three months of support, intercepts federal tax refunds at $500 of arrears, and blocks a passport above $2,500. When arrears exceed $2,500 and no full monthly payment has been made for ninety consecutive days, it may suspend a driver's license on sixty days' notice unless the parent pays in full or enters an approved payment plan, with a right to a district-court hearing that stays the suspension (W.S. § 20-6-111(f)). It can ask the court to suspend a professional, hunting or fishing license as well. Willful nonpayment of more than $5,000, or for more than a year, for a child living in another state is a federal offense (18 U.S.C. § 228).

Orders that crossed a state line

Under the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act the court that made a custody determination keeps exclusive, continuing jurisdiction while a parent or the child remains there, and a Wyoming court may not modify another state's order until that state has lost or declined jurisdiction (W.S. § 20-5-303). Support orders follow the Uniform Interstate Family Support Act, which lets a Wyoming order be registered and collected where the paying parent now works, and the reverse. My post on which state decides custody and support explains how a family can end up with custody in one court and support in another; the divorce page covers the decree these orders come from.

Asked after the decree.

What counts as a material change in circumstances for custody in Wyoming?
A change since the last order, not contemplated then, that affects the child's welfare and is significant relative to what you ask. It must outweigh society's interest in leaving a judgment alone; in September 2025 the Supreme Court held an estrangement that already existed at the divorce could not qualify. Qualifying changes: a custodial parent's relocation and the distance it creates, repeated and unreasonable refusal of the other parent's visitation, which the statute names, and real deterioration in a home or parent. Age, remarriage, or inconvenience usually do not.
How do I modify child support in Wyoming?
File a petition in the district court that entered the order, with a confidential financial affidavit and supporting documents, and serve the other parent, who has twenty days to answer, thirty if served outside Wyoming. If the order is six months old and the guideline on current incomes moves the amount twenty percent or more, that is by law a sufficient change. Otherwise show a substantial change of circumstances; every three years either parent can ask for a guideline review without showing any change. Nothing reaches back before service.
Can I stop paying child support if my ex will not let me see the children?
No. Support and parenting time are separate obligations, and a violation of one does not excuse the other. A parent who stops paying is in contempt and accrues a judgment for every missed month; a parent who withholds the children is in contempt too, and the statute says repeated, unreasonable denial of visitation can be the material change that reopens custody. The right response is a motion for an order to show cause, with dates, filed promptly. The wrong one makes you the second parent to break the order.
What happens if I do not pay child support in Wyoming?
Each missed payment becomes a judgment when due. Withholding expands to take arrears. Once arrears exceed $2,500 with no full payment for ninety days, the Child Support Program can suspend your driver's license on sixty days' notice, and ask the court to suspend a professional, hunting or fishing license. Federal tax refunds are intercepted at $500 of arrears, a passport denied above $2,500, the debt reported to credit bureaus above $1,000, and a lien perfected at three months. Contempt can end in a purge amount, a plan, or jail.
Can alimony be modified or ended in Wyoming?
Yes, by the court. Either party may petition to revise the alimony provisions at any time, and the Supreme Court requires a material and substantial change of circumstances since the divorce, not one the payor caused by new debt or leaving a job. Alimony agreed in a settlement can still be modified, though the court weighs that the payor accepted it. No one may decide alone that payments stop; a payor who does is in contempt. The property division in the same decree cannot be revisited at all.
My former spouse moved to another state with the children. Which court enforces the order?
The Wyoming court that entered it, as long as a parent or the children still live here and a significant connection remains. The other state can enforce it once registered, but cannot modify it until Wyoming loses or declines jurisdiction. Support follows a similar rule under its own act: the issuing state keeps authority to modify while a parent or child remains, and the order can be registered there to collect against wages. My post on which state decides custody and support explains why they can land in different courts.
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